We meet someone at a networking event, exchange cards and we intend following up, but we don't. Even when we declare with enthusiasm that "we should meet up for a coffee" more often than not, we don't.
You see the answer is in the follow up. Follow up builds relationships. We know that so why don't we do it?
Simple, it's a question of time. We only have so many hours in the day and we end up coping with 'non incoming producing stuff' that steals our time and attention. And if building relationships with existing and potential customers is not important to you then, what is it all about?
It's the same challenge we have in business, we lose more sales through lack of an effective follow up system than we do from our ability to sell.
We present a business proposition to someone and they are not ready, they say no. 48% will not contact that person again. Only 24% will make a second call and so on.
I wrote a similar blog on this subject a while back and from the comments you can see that one or two people thought I was implying that we should pester people with unwanted phone calls or that you spam people with emails. Not at all. The skill is staying in touch in a variety of ways, just like you do with those you have a relationship with.
Only 2% of people will buy anything at a first meeting ... only where the lines meet on the graph do the averages start to work. The real results are at the back end.
Take a close look at these statistics. 81% of major sales are closed after the fifth contact and it may take up to a year from their initial inquiry according to Sales and Marketing Executives International.
When it comes to attending networking events they are in fact invaluable but when it comes to generating referrals you must engage in building relationships with 'strategic partners' in order to build commitment.
Referrals Roundtable Workshop Events focus on law of attraction marketing but there is no point in attracting people to you if you are not going to follow up effectively.
By default, BNI provides the necessary follow up and build the strategic relationships because members are required to be there each week. (Substitutes are allowed on occasions). Some visitors who don't know this stuff wonder why it is necessary. Perhaps these figures will explain why.




